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The Second Realms » Recent Topics http://forum.arkabo.com/ TSR en-US Thu, 09 Sep 2010 06:14:35 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q http://forum.arkabo.com/search.php willjacque83 on "Need Advise........................" http://forum.arkabo.com/topic.php?id=4#post-4 Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:42:48 +0000 willjacque83 4@http://forum.arkabo.com/ One of my friend looking for your opinion on how you like a guy to approach you. He live in London and often visit a place called the South Bank by the Thames to meet friends for coffee. It's a busy place this time of year, and lots of people sitting in the parks reading and enjoying the sun. His question is this: would you get freaked out if a guy come up to you while you were relaxing in the sun and basically said 'Hi, I'm just on my way to meet a friend for coffee in about 10 minutes, I saw you sat here and just wanted to come over and say hi' and introduce myself. He has done this a couple of times and have a good chat with people, but can't seem to get it out of my head that women in general would find this odd so tend to listen to my inner voice and more often than not, will not approach. He find bars/clubs very load and hard work to talk and listen to someone. There are so many opportunities to meet people during the day. Malls and parks etc. Are women open to being approached during the day? How do you like to be approached? I can give a lot of suggestions to him but, i am confused because he is my best friend. I need advises of others to give him an appropriate and good advise. ______________ <a href="http://www.themodernman.com/how_to_get_a_girlfriend.html">How to get a girlfriend</a> willjacque83 on "General Dating Rules" http://forum.arkabo.com/topic.php?id=3#post-3 Wed, 21 Jul 2010 15:22:08 +0000 willjacque83 3@http://forum.arkabo.com/ * Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick with rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage. You are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time. * Never reveal information you don't have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild. * Keep dates brief, but your men interested. Less is always more. * Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind. * Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab. * Ensure you receive flowers. If he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him. * Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything. * Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative. * Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying. _______________ <a href="http://www.themodernman.com/get_laid.html">How to get laid</a> willjacque83 on "4 situations to avoid." http://forum.arkabo.com/topic.php?id=2#post-2 Tue, 20 Jul 2010 21:48:04 +0000 willjacque83 2@http://forum.arkabo.com/ Whether on the club scene or already involved in a simple yet sexually fulfilling fling, the Player will often encounter situations he’d be better off avoiding. 1- Meeting her girlfriends At some point, she will want you to meet her friends. Now, when this happens while you’re first flirting at the club or bar, it’s usually a good idea to assent. Doing so shows her friends that you’re a decent, well-rounded guy who has only the best intentions, and their approval will further endear you to your selected target. 2- Weekend getaways You obviously have no desire to turn your pleasant, no-strings-attached relationship into a giant commitment headache, so although a “relaxing weekend away” may sound awfully appealing on the surface, you have to realize what it entails. You have to understand that such an excursion is riddled with insinuations and implications on the part of the woman. 3- Ego confrontations Men can be both competitive and territorial, especially when women are involved. This is why menacing looks are prevalent on the nightlife scene. These expressions are not-so-subtle statements designed to reinforce a man’s dominance over the pack. This is due to a combination of fear and/or jealousy and a firm belief that females, regardless of age, intelligence, personality, or level of sophistication, are always drawn toward males who proactively assert their will over other potential mates. It’s quite instinctive, really. But you’re beyond that. You’re no brawler, and with your reputation and impressive resume, you needn’t prove anything to anyone. Your actions really do speak for themselves, and if you acknowledge the challenge, that means you’re insecure, and the results will never be satisfying. Getting tossed out on your ear or being led out in handcuffs is hardly attractive. 4- Letting her take control It’s not about “control” on the part of the Player, per se; it’s more about simply being involved in the intended direction of a relationship. The supposedly sensitive thing to do these days is to let the woman choose the destination (and, in turn, the atmosphere) of a first date or encounter. But while it’s a bad idea to eliminate all possible input from the girl, you should most certainly dictate the proceedings early on. Giving her the reins while letting things progress is almost always a mistake. One of the worst situations to be in is when the lady suddenly feels misled or betrayed simply because you decided to go with your own ideas after following hers from the start. The key is to send the appropriate message early on. It’s not about dominating; it’s about guiding and is a proactive approach to avoiding a lose-lose situation. _______________ <a href="http://www.themodernman.com/get_girls.html">How to get girls</a> raphael on "Your first topic" http://forum.arkabo.com/topic.php?id=1#post-1 Fri, 16 Jul 2010 18:42:09 +0000 raphael 1@http://forum.arkabo.com/ First Post! w00t.